Women like sweet things. Not just because it is socially acceptable either, it’s in our biological makeup. We have an inbuilt imperative to search for men who can protect us and ensure our genes are passed on by sticking around. Not only are we under the spell of our biological urges we have also undergone years of sweet training as little girls.
Fairies, flowers, lotions and mums makeup are what little girls dream of. Sweet things help women feel safe. Not only do we feel valued and appreciated when offered sweet things they also trigger dopamine, a chemical in the brain that produces pleasure. Flowers, chocolate, good manners, sweet perfume and emotional intimacy are perfect ways to make a woman feel safe and protected. So next time you’re on a date or spending time with your partner, remember these five things.
Flowers
Not only does arriving with a beautiful bouquet show a woman that you appreciate her it also provides an instant emotional high. Studies have shown that receiving flowers has an instant mood lifting effect and it can last up to three days. According to a recent study at Rutgers University receiving flowers creates a sense of general satisfaction, increases intimacy and encourages positive social behaviour.
Chocolates
The Aztecs used Cacao seeds as currency, medicine and as an aphrodisiac. The ancient Mayans and Aztecs believed that Cacao was a spiritual plant possessing divine power. Recent studies at the University of California have discovered that not only does dark chocolate possess essential vitamins and minerals it can also increase blood circulation and raise serotonin levels. Serotonin is a neurotransmitter and produces feelings of happiness and well-being.
Sugar Coat It
Women appreciate honesty because it’s healthy and because they are not stupid. If a woman asks you if her bum looks big in these jeans or if she has put on weight, tell the truth. Brutal honesty however, is not healthy feedback. If indeed she has put on weight or her bum does look big and could possibly look smaller in something else then let her know, in the nicest possible way. Tell her you like the shape of her body or she doesn’t need to change a thing for you. Or point out the benefits of exercise and offer to do some together. Tell the truth but tell it in a respectful, caring way.
Nice Manners
Good manners are simply behaviours that display the markings of a civilized member of society. Women’s biological drive to seek men who can protect them involves assessing whether or not a man can hold his own in social situations. Having nice manners also shows women that you are capable of treating them as well as others with respect.
Wear Perfume
Smell is a powerful romantic tool. If you wear an appropriate amount of sweet but masculine perfume, women will always associate this smell with you. Research at the Weizmann Institute of Science indicates that association of a smell with an experience will leave a unique and lasting impression in the brain. From first impression, whenever a woman smells the scent again whether it be on your clothes, on the sheets or on a stranger walking by, they will be flooded with pleasurable memories of you.
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